You need to be building roads, not blowing up bridges. ~ Dr. Phil

We come to the Fourth Step
positive others have wrecked our lives,
that we are innocent victims.
that we have no part in the chaos.
We finish the inventory aware
most of the havoc was wreaked by us,
that our resentments through the years
have delayed needed construction
and destroyed infrastructure.
The understanding reached,
we spend the rest of our lives
building roads rather than
blowing up bridges!