The first requirement is that we be convinced that any life run on self-will can hardly be a success. On that basis we are almost always in collision with something or somebody, even though our motives are good. Most people […]
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The Thinking Obsession
Cognitive addictions are a powerful way to avoid feelings. I lived in my head for years. I was a university professor. Thinking can be a way to avoid feelings. All addictions have a thinking component, which is called obsession. ~ […]
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How do I become who I want to be? Maybe in some minor ways by deciding, choosing a path then taking it. Maybe that’s possible… when I’ve already drawn near. Then there’s the coming to believe. Not deciding to believe, […]
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Illness or pain is just an extension of negative emotion. When you are no longer feeling any resistance to it, it’s a non-issue. ~ Abraham It’s logical. Angry, embarrassed, bitter, jealous, engaged… what happens? You smash things, yell, use your […]
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I can tell you how to mend relationships, find satisfaction — even joy – in life, alone or together, hale or unwell, in spite of others. Find a meeting, get – and use – a sponsor, work the Steps, recover. […]
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