I have learned there is no right way to do the wrong thing. ~  Overeaters Overeaters, Third Edition (Kindle Locations 781-782).

The best-laid plan, our most excellent thinking,
will inevitably go wrong for us, for addicts,
if we’re directing the play, if we are our own higher power.
But trusting that I know where to be, what to do,
is like my understanding of the SillyBox aka the GPS.
If I surrender and turn my lifea and will
over to God as I understand God, then there really is a right way
and I can’t get lost no wonder what my sense of direction,
and the next right thing feels the perfect path.