If people’s actions continue to surprise me, it’s time to do another fourth-step inventory. ~ For Today (Kindle Location 3112)

Why would she do that to me?
What could he be thinking?

Wait a minute. WARNING, WARNING!
Am I looking through the eyes of resentment,
of fear? Am I blaming everything on others?
Maybe I never will understand why someone
chooses as they do, but it’s not my business.
It’s not my decision to make. What I must find
is the cause of my distress. And I can.
What upsets me? What caused it?
How am I affected? What was my part?
Where have I been selfish or dishonest?
Was I self-seeking or frightened?
Why am I worried about her conduct?
What does it matter what he was thinking?