The deference — “respect or esteem due to a superior” — clarified who was in power, who I should believe in, and the reason for giving over my shortcomings. ~ Voices of Recovery (Kindle Locations 2091-2092).

Salute. Stand when they come in.
Words of respect, deference.
Curtsy, bow, pay homage,
give tribute, yield to.
Respect for the role, the authority
without difference for who, for merit.
In military or in school,
in corporate structure or courtroom
observers grasp a pecking order,
who’s in charge, who to believe,
who will lead. And see the path clear
so independent thought and decision
no longer remains a burden to bear.